There were also some cultural differences he noticed that were shocking. For one, he had never been to a place with so many white people before. Ten years ago, there was a lot less diversity on campus. He was also used to the big city, and in coming to Maryville he realized how little there was to do in small towns. In big cities you can go to the mall, concerts, fine restaurants, plays, you name it. So that was something that took some getting used to. Another thing he noticed that seemed out of the ordinary was that there were so many old people driving. This confused me, so I had to ask what do old people do in Mexico City? They don't go anywhere? He said no, they don't drive, because the traffic is so crazy down there they would just get pushed off the road. I don't even like driving in Des Moines! So I definitely wouldn't make it down there.
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Then I asked Paco what he would like America to know about Hispanic culture. He said there are some general misconceptions when it comes to Hispanics, because some Americans call all Hispanics Mexican. I agree, that we assume way too much, and you know what happens when you assume... We also talked about stereotypes, and how a lot of people think Hispanics are all laborers or cleaners, and that those trades should just be second nature to them. He said truthfully, Hispanic immigrants are shy, and sometimes uneducated, but very hard working. People think that all Mexicans want to come to America and this is another thing we misinterpret. Usually, only one or two from the whole family come over to work and make money to send it back to their families.
We talked about the American dream, and how it has lost its meaning. He said in America, if you work hard you get to be someone, but he said it doesn't seem to work that way with Hispanics. They stay invisible no matter how hard they work. This really made me sad. We also talked about the differences in communication between Americans and Mexicans. He said we talk about everything but nothing. We talk about politics and our problems everything is just an agenda, when with Mexicans they talk just to talk. They listen to each other and help each other, their friendships are like a "real Facebook," not fake. I told him how I had noticed throughout my life that the Hispanics I had been around were almost always more open and affectionate that the average American. With Americans we are always defending our space and want people to stay out of our bubble, and with Mexicans, or possibly Hispanics in general, they just share it. The main point I took away from all this is that we all judge, we all assume, and we are getting it wrong, so Paco told me that in order to understand another culture, you must experience it.
Until next time,
Keri Jo
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